Men to Kiss (2012) is a romantic comedy-drama directed by Marcus Lenz, which explores the complexities of love, self-acceptance, and navigating relationships. The film follows Matthias (played by Stefan Gubser), a successful, seemingly content man in his thirties who has been in a long-term relationship with his partner, Kai (played by Stefan JΓΌrgens). Despite having a steady relationship, Matthias is facing emotional turmoil, questioning his own desires and the future of his love life.
The story takes a turn when Matthias meets Stefan (played by Gabriel Merz), a free-spirited and openly gay man. Stefanβs confident and carefree attitude toward love and life challenges Matthiasβs more reserved and conventional approach. As they spend time together, Matthias is confronted with his own feelings and his relationship with Kai, which is no longer fulfilling. He begins to develop a deep connection with Stefan, and the tension between his growing attraction to Stefan and his commitment to Kai becomes the filmβs central conflict.
As Matthias grapples with his emotions, he is faced with the difficult decision of whether to stay in his long-term relationship with Kai or pursue a new, uncertain connection with Stefan. The film explores themes of identity, the complexities of modern relationships, and the importance of understanding one’s own desires and emotional needs.
In the end, Matthias realizes that he must confront the truth about his own heart. The movie ends on a reflective note, showing Matthias embarking on a new journey of self-discovery, embracing the idea that true happiness comes from being honest with oneself and following oneβs own heart. Men to Kiss is an exploration of love in its various forms, capturing the uncertainty, excitement, and challenges of embracing new possibilities in a romantic relationship.